Triggers are up right now. In many ways, ‘tis the season. The truth of the matter though is that triggers happen all the time. Sometimes we know we’re being triggered, but a lot of the time we don’t.
There are times too that we off-handedly mention being triggered, but we gloss over it or sweep it into the corner.
But when we lightly dismiss them or toss them aside, they don’t actually go away. They may hide out for a while, gently nudging us here and there, but then when we still aren’t paying attention to them – WHAM!
The trigger is back and this time it’s screaming even louder. It might even come back in the form of an illness or an accident so that it can really make us stop and listen.
At some point, we may even begin to feel like we’re losing control of our emotions or our lives.
We may hop in and out of relationships, basking in the glow of the honeymoon period and then high-tailing it when we things get real and the triggers start to pop again.
We wonder why intimacy is eluding us and why we are unhappy in our jobs…Why we are eating too much, drinking too much…Why we just can’t seem to pull it together…
FACT: Triggers will never just go away or disappear.
They may lay low for a while but then they will just get louder and stronger and more frequent until we actually stop and tend to them. Until we acknowledge and listen to them.
Triggers are our inner child’s way of letting us know that something isn’t right, that there is something within us that wants some attention…something that wants to go from a state of repressed imbalance to one of expressed balance.
You know how a baby cries or a toddler throws a tantrum when there is something happening that he doesn’t understand and he needs our attention to help him figure it out?
A trigger is an adult’s temper tantrum. But if we commit to paying attention, it doesn’t have to be. You see…
A trigger can actually be a gift.
It is our inner child saying, “I need you to look at me. I need you to pay attention to me. I have something to tell you.” Really, it most wants to be held.
Triggers tend to occur in moments unrelated to the actual event that “created” them, and so it seems easy to isolate or ignore them.
But if we ever want to be really free, truly able to manage and express our emotions in a healthy manner, we have to pay attention to our triggers.
We have to explore and honor them. We have to ultimately nurture them back into health.
Our inner child wants to know that we are listening and providing for her. She wants to know that she is safe.
A trigger is a beautiful indication that there is something within us that wants to be known. Moving through one is a blessing – an empowering and inspiring way of living that allows for growth and authentic self-expression.
Join me and Elicia Miller for our upcoming course: Emotional Healing & Your Inner Intuitive to learn from your triggers and heal the wounds and patterns causing them, as well as how to care for your energy body, honor your inner child, deepen your intuition and more! We will support and guide you through this beautiful and liberating process over the course of four weeks in Atlanta. Watch our video describing this powerful work, and for more details about our course HERE.
Stay tuned for more retreats and an online course as well!